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I'm a person that has an active mind and shows an unfeigned interest in the world around me. I'm egoistical and ambitious, almost to the point of megalomania, and will stop at nothing to get what I want. Honestly I enjoy being the centre of attention. If my friend faces a problem or dilemma I will be there to offer help, and when others leave the field of battle the I makes a step forward to solve the problem with dignity. I set the high standard of actions for myself as well as for other people and are surprised when others cannot cope with a task; I'm so carried away by the process that fail to see other people's weaknesses. I can be quick-tempered and obstinate, and sometimes too outspoken, but there is usually good advice in my criticisms or suggestions. I believe my vibrant, positive attitude is irreplaceable to have around and one can always count on me to support my friends unequivocally in times of need =P

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Three Basic Question

This feeling of anger frequently arose when people didn't think the "right" way-my way.
One night as I laid on my bed, I began to ask myself:
> Where's it written that I've to be perfect?
> Where's it written that everyone has to like me or agree with me?
> Where's it written that the world has to be fair?

Here are some of the things I began to say to myself:
> I don't have to be perfect. In fact I can't be perfect. I'm not perfect!!
Perhaps this is one of the times when I'm off base

> Everyone doesn't have to like me or agree with me. Maybe this person has good reasons for not liking what I'm saying or doing. If the person doesn't have good reasons, then the problem is his/her, not mine.

> The world is not fair. Even if this situation is unfair, I know that life doesn't have to be painful because life is a series of lessons I need, happening in perfect order.

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