Have u ever noticed that certain things happen to certain ppl?and certain things dont seem to happen to certain ppl
So particular ppl get particular lessons
When we face a very complicated problemThe worst thing we can ever say is "It's not fair!" or "why me?"
For example, this few days my best friend's always bothering meWe r blaming each other but we remain linked becoz there's more to learn
I could do anything but to understand him/her would be the hardest thingand it's probably something I'm not good at so I've a chance to practice it
Sometimes we believe that someone's ruining our lifethat belief will make it true for us
It seems like they're in the way of our happinessActually it's us in the way becoz we choose how we see ppl
When u change, ur situation changes. u've to figure it out how it will happen
if u fear loneliness, it'll come to uif u fear embarrassment, it'll fall on ur faceIt's life's way of encouraging us to grow
Pain is still the main reason we changePain encourage us to get serious
if ur friend makes u angry, then ur project is to deal with anger effectivelyAnd u've this friend to help u do it. What fortune!
EVERY PERSON WHO WALKS INTO UR LIFE'S A TEACHEREVEN IF THEY DRIVE U NUTZ,THEY TEACH U B'COZ THEY SHOW UWHERE UR LIMITS ARE. JUST B'COZ PPL'RE UR TEACHER DOESNT MEAN U'VE TO LIKE THEM
When effective ppl face a problem, they ask themselves"how do I need to change what I'm thinking & wht I'm doin?how can I be better than I'm now?"
While losers will never stop judging and ask"why does everything happen to me?"
if we're honest with ourselves, we can list almost everything tht's ever happened to us and see how we helped to create it
So STOP BLAMING OTHERS the world rewards effort, not excuses