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I'm a person that has an active mind and shows an unfeigned interest in the world around me. I'm egoistical and ambitious, almost to the point of megalomania, and will stop at nothing to get what I want. Honestly I enjoy being the centre of attention. If my friend faces a problem or dilemma I will be there to offer help, and when others leave the field of battle the I makes a step forward to solve the problem with dignity. I set the high standard of actions for myself as well as for other people and are surprised when others cannot cope with a task; I'm so carried away by the process that fail to see other people's weaknesses. I can be quick-tempered and obstinate, and sometimes too outspoken, but there is usually good advice in my criticisms or suggestions. I believe my vibrant, positive attitude is irreplaceable to have around and one can always count on me to support my friends unequivocally in times of need =P

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Qualities that friends have to offer

I just read some book about friendship so I just wanna share it with you guys

Here are some qualities that friends have to offer:

1. Supportive - they are respectful and offer thoughtful advice and encouragement.

2. Committed - we can count on them to be there even when life is difficult. They stay in touch through the years.

3. Share our interests - they wish to know us and what we care about. Better yet, they share our interests and enjoy them with us.

4. Open - they are willing to explore our past, even back to childhood, and share feelings, hopes and dreams.

5. Trustworthy - we can confide in and count on them.

6. Frank - they will point out where we may be mistaken, tactfully but also honestly. Transcending simple politeness, they gently nudge us to deal with important, difficult issues.

7. Concerned - they care deeply about our well being, thoughtful of the challenges we face, work with us to resolve difficulties.

8. Helpful - they pitch in, offering ideas and helpful resources.

9. Enjoyable company - finding creative things to do, we enjoy breaking bread together.

10. Spiritual - they share our interest in attaining a higher love. If they believe, they may also pray for and with us

11. Concerned about our world - they share a desire for greater meaning and purpose - think about issues facing our communities and society - offer stimulating conversation on important social issues - encourage us to get involved, but respect our choices. They also respect our opinions when we disagree and are open to new ways of understanding.

Friday, May 28, 2010

Light is that which is visible and dark is that which hides

There's no such thing as a human without darkness in his heart.
Everyone's just afraid to admit it. We just turn our eyes away from it
when we want to and pretend like we don't see it.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

True friendship isn't about being there when it's convenient; it's about being there when it's not.

Because of work, school and pursuing my current goals, there are so many holes and gaps in my relationship with my friends. Thus, I wanna fill all those holes during this holiday but it's not easy since none of my friends respond it well. I don't blame them though, I blame myself for not being a good friends. However, that's fine since I still have my best friends who would chat all night for me and I'm very grateful for that. Anyway, I don't want to keep yapping about what's been done!

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

The Gap Between Us















The Gap Between Us

by AG.K.H.

You still don't understand me,
And I know you never will.
I guess no one ever will
Because there's so much going on now,
And I can't sit still.
I don't even know you anymore.
I wish things were the way they were,
The way it used to be.
I guess what I'm trying to say is,
I want that gap between us to feel.

Saturday, May 22, 2010

No such thing as prefect life!


No matter who you are and where you come from, we all basically live the same lives in the terms of the things we go through. We all have great ups and downs, things we never thought we would get through, lose touch with hopes and dreams, have regrets, experience pain and loss and so on. Believe it or not, there is no such thing as prefect life and I just want you to notice this fact.

Friday, May 21, 2010

Betrayal


Betrayal. Everyone has experienced it. We’ve all been guilty of it.
Humans are interesting
because in order to survive they betray one another.
Then I've a question in my head
Is it possible to succeed without any act of betrayal?