I just read some book about friendship so I just wanna share it with you guys
Here are some qualities that friends have to offer:
1. Supportive - they are respectful and offer thoughtful advice and encouragement.
2. Committed - we can count on them to be there even when life is difficult. They stay in touch through the years.
3. Share our interests - they wish to know us and what we care about. Better yet, they share our interests and enjoy them with us.
4. Open - they are willing to explore our past, even back to childhood, and share feelings, hopes and dreams.
5. Trustworthy - we can confide in and count on them.
6. Frank - they will point out where we may be mistaken, tactfully but also honestly. Transcending simple politeness, they gently nudge us to deal with important, difficult issues.
7. Concerned - they care deeply about our well being, thoughtful of the challenges we face, work with us to resolve difficulties.
8. Helpful - they pitch in, offering ideas and helpful resources.
9. Enjoyable company - finding creative things to do, we enjoy breaking bread together.
10. Spiritual - they share our interest in attaining a higher love. If they believe, they may also pray for and with us
11. Concerned about our world - they share a desire for greater meaning and purpose - think about issues facing our communities and society - offer stimulating conversation on important social issues - encourage us to get involved, but respect our choices. They also respect our opinions when we disagree and are open to new ways of understanding.
Nothing can be more important than understanding the meaning of life and living life with purpose. But, what if I don't know where to begin? My blog becomes a way to reflect on life or works of art
About Me
- A-Gerald-KH
- I'm a person that has an active mind and shows an unfeigned interest in the world around me. I'm egoistical and ambitious, almost to the point of megalomania, and will stop at nothing to get what I want. Honestly I enjoy being the centre of attention. If my friend faces a problem or dilemma I will be there to offer help, and when others leave the field of battle the I makes a step forward to solve the problem with dignity. I set the high standard of actions for myself as well as for other people and are surprised when others cannot cope with a task; I'm so carried away by the process that fail to see other people's weaknesses. I can be quick-tempered and obstinate, and sometimes too outspoken, but there is usually good advice in my criticisms or suggestions. I believe my vibrant, positive attitude is irreplaceable to have around and one can always count on me to support my friends unequivocally in times of need =P
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Friday, May 28, 2010
Thursday, May 27, 2010
True friendship isn't about being there when it's convenient; it's about being there when it's not.
Because of work, school and pursuing my current goals, there are so many holes and gaps in my relationship with my friends. Thus, I wanna fill all those holes during this holiday but it's not easy since none of my friends respond it well. I don't blame them though, I blame myself for not being a good friends. However, that's fine since I still have my best friends who would chat all night for me and I'm very grateful for that. Anyway, I don't want to keep yapping about what's been done!
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
The Gap Between Us
The Gap Between Us
by AG.K.H.
You still don't understand me,
And I know you never will.
I guess no one ever will
Because there's so much going on now,
And I can't sit still.
I don't even know you anymore.
I wish things were the way they were,
The way it used to be.
I guess what I'm trying to say is,
I want that gap between us to feel.
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Saturday, May 22, 2010
No such thing as prefect life!
No matter who you are and where you come from, we all basically live the same lives in the terms of the things we go through. We all have great ups and downs, things we never thought we would get through, lose touch with hopes and dreams, have regrets, experience pain and loss and so on. Believe it or not, there is no such thing as prefect life and I just want you to notice this fact.
Friday, May 21, 2010
Betrayal
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Call on me when you need a hand.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Monday, May 17, 2010
How am I doing?
Except I can't sleep and I cry all night till dawn
What I'm trying to say is I love you and I miss you
And I'm so sorry that I did you wrong
Friday, May 14, 2010
First Meeting!
First Meeting
by A.G.K.H.
It was Monday, our first day on school
When I met this girl that is so kind and cool.
She’s new in our school so we approach her
with my friends, we introduced
and had lunch with her.
Not like in manga, anime, novel and movies,
there’re no fireworks or shooting stars.
Our meeting is ordinary that we have no clue
that it is the beginning of a love
She’s committed with a boy that time.
I didn’t care, I liked someone else.
Days passed by and closer we became
With three more friends we became a gang.
Then 2008 came, without recognizing it,
our graduation was near and we know that
graduation Day is the climax of a dream.
we’re in fear scared to drop, frightened to fail.
That year we became closer than ever
She was helping me to the best that she can.
From friends to lovers we turn out to be,
Without realizing it we became we
Saturday, May 8, 2010
Why Had This Happen by Rikki
Why Had This Happen
by Rikki
I want to say I love you,
because it'd truly true.
I don't want to be a lier,
but I don't have the quality of being a fighter.
Our love for sure is forbidden,
but I can't help it all of our sudden.
I had to leave you even if it hurts,
were under one circumstances and we are both hurt.
I'll miss that for sure,
and the pain will be cured
as the times goes by
We just have to wait,
and don't forget, in love there's nothing late.
Even if I have regrets,
I'll surely miss you don't forget.
My love for you is forever,
And I will never forget you never.
by Rikki
I want to say I love you,
because it'd truly true.
I don't want to be a lier,
but I don't have the quality of being a fighter.
Our love for sure is forbidden,
but I can't help it all of our sudden.
I had to leave you even if it hurts,
were under one circumstances and we are both hurt.
I'll miss that for sure,
and the pain will be cured
as the times goes by
We just have to wait,
and don't forget, in love there's nothing late.
Even if I have regrets,
I'll surely miss you don't forget.
My love for you is forever,
And I will never forget you never.
Thursday, May 6, 2010
I think its Time
I think its Time
I think its my turn to walk away
I don't know how I can stay
When the words cant come out of my mouth I don't know what to say
This is the only way I can keep my heart at bay
I was never able to tell you the words " I love You"
But this is what I have to choose
There's nothing for you to lose
I promise you'll be fine
You wont blow up like a mine
Your stronger than I am
After all you're a strong girl
You took the one thing I had left
You took it and left me a mess
Your ripped my heart out right from my chest
I think its my turn to walk away
I don't know how I can stay
When the words cant come out of my mouth I don't know what to say
This is the only way I can keep my heart at bay
I was never able to tell you the words " I love You"
But this is what I have to choose
There's nothing for you to lose
I promise you'll be fine
You wont blow up like a mine
Your stronger than I am
After all you're a strong girl
You took the one thing I had left
You took it and left me a mess
Your ripped my heart out right from my chest
Sunday, May 2, 2010
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